The Gadget Boy

Your son’s bestfriend has all the latest gadgets and it makes your son feel as if he’s living in dark ages.  It is sometimes difficult for them to understand why other kids have the latest in technology and he doesn’t.

When he complains about not having the latest ipod or the Wii, carefully explain to him that every family spends money differently.  Don’t put down the other family for being wrong and point out the fun things you do that don’t involve toys.  You can tell him that you can save that money and go on an outing or a camping trip together.

If dissappointment persists, consider exposing him to less fortunate people to put things in perspective.  It will help him understand that having a lot of toys isn’t everything.

More Gift Ideas

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When Kids Ask For A Cellphone

Whether we like it or not, cellphone has become a natural part of childhood today.  I hear some parents complaining about their 6 and 7 year olds already asking for a cellphone.  Whether we allow our kids to own one is totally up to us parents, but if you think they should have one, you have to let them know that cellphone ownership comes with specific responsibilities.  Consider these things before you hand them the gadget.

Know the school policy first.  Some schools don’t allow students to bring cellphones.  My son’s school allows them to bring cellphones provided they deposit it to the teacher in the morning and claim it after class.  If your child takes a cellphone to school, make sure he follows the rules and has a secure way of keeping it from being lost, stolen or confiscated.

Make your own policy too.  Make it clear that cellphones should be used to check in with you, for emergencies and make sure they don’t change the rules you’ve set.

Teach them manners.  Talk to them about turning their cellphones off during meal times, while hearing mass, when doing homework and studying, libraries, and other quiet places.  Ban the practice of interrupting important conversations to answer incoming calls and text messages.

Let them know the dangers of using a cellphone while walking or on wheels-bike, roller blades, skateboards.  We see a lot of people texting or talking while crossing the street or driving.  Tell them it’s dangerous and could cost them their lives.  You can set a good example while in the car by pulling over to answer or make a call.

Technology plays a big role in our chidren’s lives and letting them know the responsibilities that goes with it and laying down your rules lets them know you are watching and you care.

Father and Son Deal

Joey brought home his report card yesterday and proudly showed me his grades. His grades are good but he’s a bit worried his dad might not buy him the playstation 3 he wants for Christmas because he’s 2 points short of the deal. Hubs promised to buy him one if he gets 85 average this second trimester. I told him he still got a month and a half to make up for it and not to worry too much because I’m confident that he can do it.